Friday, 4 October 2013

Impoliteness Among Youth




Assalamualaikum and have a great day everyone ! This is our second entry after Oh My English Member ! entry last week. We hope you enjoy reading our new entry. This week we want to share about 'Impoliteness' and we choose 'Impoliteness VS Teenager Life' as our entry title because nowadays, many teenagers associated with impoliteness in their daily lives and they do so without shame even by their own parents.

Impoliteness. It is a discourteous manner that ignores accepted social usage. However, nature of courtesy is becoming increasingly important in our lives. This issue has been raised among those who stated that they agree and accept impoliteness properties for several reasons and anyone who thinks that these traits do not fit to be a rude to others no matter when it happens. Personally and from my point of view, bad manners can cause harm to our relationships with family and friends, efficiency in work and a future in politics and business. When we were together with family and friends, our rude attitude will hurt the feelings of those we love and care about us. They are the most important people in our lives. So, do not use bad words or violence to hurt their feelings and their love for us. There will be a gap between us and our parents, and it can cause problems in communication with them.

In other words, they reward us something of value for them but we do not appreciate the gift and thought it was the worst gift in our lives. Besides, they are also being worried and want to reach out to us even where we are.but we always want to be independent without them. But this conflict that we created does not indicate that we does not need rude to our parents because this is for our own good since they care about their children well.

In addition, rude attitude will cause prejudice to the other people in the work environment and no one is willing to work with people who are rude. Especially when we control things in politics and business, politicians and leaders need to make a positive and good impression to the public and workers because what they show not only themselves but the company, the state and the country. What they show is a group rather than individually. Discussions or negotiations between them will not be successful if both parties show impoliteness each other and the federation will not be sustainable if both of them separate the relationships with friends.

The major factors contributing to these occurrences are :

1. Desire to prove something

As a youth, we know exactly what most youths want to prove when they start being rude. It is to prove superiority. Aggression, use of abusive language and use of clearly intentional rudeness are the results of being pushed beyond the limits they can handle with limited patience.

2. Influence

Most youths are like fluid in a container. They are influenced by the people in the place they live. or instance, in a place where most people swear, it is very likely that the youths there swear too. It is an unintentional rudeness.

3. Awareness

Sometimes we hurt other people with our words without knowing. Sometimes we realize it immediately, sometimes we don't and, sometimes we never do. Awareness makes all the difference. Lack of awareness of the meaning of impoliteness and lack of empathy combined often become the reason of impoliteness among youths.

Youth Crime Statistics


Is there a reason for ignoring the soft attitude of self and society ? Of course the answer is 'yes'. There's no denying that the permanent establishment is difficult at all times and it can indicate to others that we are a brave and not be criticized. But it does not mean rude is a good attitude which at a certain level is the best way to show impropriety and the courage to be a gentle man of iron.

In conclusion, the attitude of impropriety will hurt the people that we care such as family and friends and can destroy the future of the work environment. Sometimes although we ignore the gentle attitude is a courage movement but it is not a good reason to be rude.


Example of Impoliteness Behavior













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